So, why so surprised? This holiday, I was slapped in the face by the dichotomy between old and new. Old and new traditions, and people. While the holidays are normally just a great excuse for me to take time off work, eat anything I want and spend time with my favorite people, this year was symbolic. The surprise this holiday was a realization that life can (and will) change in an instant, followed by the intense desire to make the most of what I've got.